We all remember our first time right? The searing pain, the redness, the blood curdling screams.

Oh, you thought I was talking about sex? Not quite. I’m talking about getting spanked and I recently tried it for the very first time with some interesting results.

Shirtless man holding a belt spanking
Illustrative Photo

To preface, I’m not well versed in the BDSM world nor have I experimented with anything BDSM related before. But I decided to let my boyfriend spank me with an authentic leather spanker so I could finally know what all the fuss is about.

For those of you unfamiliar, BDSM is a sex practice which can involve bondage, pain and elements of dominance and submission. In my case, it was handing my ass over to my partner and allowing him to spank at will.

I handed him the spanker and dropped my shorts. The overwhelming feeling was that anticipation of pain. It was excruciating not knowing when or where I was going to be struck, or how much it was going to hurt. I’d say this feeling is what would be alluring to those in the BDSM world as it was quite intense.

His first strike was a little too soft so I told him to go harder. I also instructed my partner to indicate how hard he was going to hit me by preempting his spank with a number. He said he was going to crank it up to 8 out of 10 so I clenched my soon-to-be red bum in readiness.

The rest of this experiment unfolds in my video. Feel free to watch, I’m sure you’ll be surprised!

Watch it right here (NSFW, obviously) –