It’s common for people to have more sex at the start of a relationship – everything is new and fresh and exciting. But sometimes, after a while, the “less” becomes “almost nothing”, as is the case for this one guy on Reddit, who came to seek advice.
“My boyfriend and I have been together for about seven months now”, he writes, “and when we first started dating we had sex constantly. It would not be uncommon for us to do it eight or nine times a week, sometimes two or three times in a day.”
Sounds great? That’s when the problems started.
“Lately, we haven’t been having much sex, if any at all. We talked about it and almost broke up over it, until we both realize how much we did want to be with each other.
Instead of calling it quits, we’re going to try to fix whatever it is that caused the sex to get boring and die out. The only problem is I have no idea how to go about rectifying this problem.
One commenter in particular had a similar story to tell – with some good advice: