Tom Daley and Dustin Lance Black are one of the more “glamorous” gay couples we’ve had in recent years. They’re good looking, they’re both celebrities who do well in their fields, and they’re both advocates for gay rights.

And yet, we still want to know who’s he boss in that relationship, because gossip is fun! So now, Lance finally reveals that “secret”.

Tom Daley and Dustin Lance Black

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Speaking to Attitude Magazine for their cover interview, the 42-year-old Dustin Lance Black was asked what people would be most surprised to learn about the 22-year-old Tom Daley, his Olympic medallist fiancé.

Probably the biggest misconception is that I’m somehow the boss, and the absolute truth of the matter is that he is the boss.

He makes the plans, he keeps the calendar. I try to keep up but he’s definitely the more organised, stricter one, and I love that.

Lance, who is an Oscar-winning screenwriter and director, has a new TV series set to air next month. “When We Rise” will follow the struggle of LGBTQ activists over five decades.

Speaking about homophobia in Hollywood, Lance also spoke out against actors who hide their sexuality.

I have no respect for someone who lies about their sexuality. At the very least say “no comment,” just keep your personal life personal. But if you’re going to closet yourself, that sends a negative message