Gay men (and men in general) watch porn – that’s almost a given. And when you’re in a relationship, you can be pretty sure your boyfriend had a porn collection at some point – and very possibly still does. But what do you do when you actually get to see the porn he prefers, and his particular “taste” makes you worried?
That’s what happened to one guy on Reddit, who stumbled across his boyfriend’s porn tumblr page. He doesn’t have a problem with his boyfriend looking at porn – but “some of the photos he’s reblogged and commented on have been a bit unsettling.”
“A lot of the posts center around public bathroom sex, with comments from him stating how much he loves it, that he first did it when he was 14 and even him commenting on a photo recognizing his university bathroom where I assume he must have hooked up a fair bit.
Another post shows a video of a guy letting five guys cum on his face with a comment from him about how much he loves letting guys do this to him. There’s also some photos he’s posted of himself begging somebody to come and fuck him with their huge cock.
There are also quite a lot of posts about dad/son incest which he’s re-blogged and liked, and quite a few about bareback sex (which we’ve never had and he hasn’t hinted at wanting to do).
Finally, the majority of the posts are photos of guys with RIDICULOUSLY huge cocks. I myself, have an average cock that I’m quite pleased with, but I can’t help but feel as if I’m not satisfying him now.
This is quite a new relationship, only about 3 months old, and I had assumed up until this point that we’ve been monogamous for that time. I got tested recently and asked him if he had slept with anybody else since we started dating and he said no, and I really want to believe him but this has made me suspicious.
I also want to point out that I’m not opposed to anything except the incest fantasy, and I understand there’s a big difference between what guys fantasize about and what they actually want to do, but it feels as if I don’t even know this guy that I’ve been dating all this time. “
After sleeping on it, the guy posted again, stating he’s planning to talk to his boyfriend about these issues – and open up about some of his own private stuff.
“Hopefully this is the first step towards us building a really open and honest relationship where we can communicate whatever we want to each other. If this conversation goes poorly, then maybe he’s not the guy for me after all.”
